Sunday, August 7

Relay For Life

I did not plan to stay there the entire time.  Ugh.  24 hours of being awake is hard.

The day before I helped mom set up our tent so we didn’t have to do it the morning before.  Literally no one from the office helped her and she was basically on her own.  They knew about the date a year in advance and everyone conveniently made plans to be gone so they didn’t have to help or be a part of it.  Luckily this year Ben, Trish and I were available to help her or she would have been on her own.  Grandma also came to hang out.
Mom got there around 8 to finish setting up and Trish got there as soon as she could to set up her tent since it took two people to put it up.  I got there after 10 because I went to mom and dad’s to get the step stool and her sewing table.  I unloaded them at our spot, settled in and waited for the event to start at noon.


I waited for Ben to get there because he left a few hours after I did.  I had him bring a surge protector and a few blankets and pillows since the weather was not going to be the greatest and no one likes to be cold.  He got there around 1:30.

Opening ceremonies was pretty emotional for some of the participants; the survivors did a lap around the track to I am a Survivor by blah blah.  They ended up playing that song a few times before the event was over.   Once they crossed the finish line everyone started putting laps in.  I worked on the luminary bags and walked laps in between.  I had just started another lap and I had someone tap me on the shoulder…I was expecting Ben, who was jogging around the track, but I was surprised to see it was Celeste.  I knew she was coming but didn’t know when I would see her.  We walked around the track together for a few miles.  She explained she was here with her friend who had battled leukemia and survived.  I thought that was very cool of her.

I walked a few more laps with Ben and Trish and some with grandma. 


I got all of the luninara bags done and Trish filled them with sand and a candle and set them aside for the ceremony at 10:30 that evening.  We did a few more laps because I wanted an even number before we left for Alex and Megan’s wedding at 6.  I wanted to leave around 4:30 so we had enough time to get there and get ready.  My mom saw the photographer that was taking the team photos so she got his attention telling him that our team was ready and he came over and got a few of us.  I told mom we would be back before 9.


We drove separate vehicles because I thought maybe Ben would have liked to stay and visit for a bit while I went back to help out at the relay.  We stopped at 1-3 to change our clothes into something more presentable to go to the wedding in.  I wore my red top and my nice khakis and some black flip flops, Ben wore a nice button down, khaki shorts and some casual shoes.  Honestly I expected a lot of people at this wedding to be wearing jeans and redneck attire since it was in the Independence area out past Rochester.  We took both vehicles again and I followed Ben and he ended up taking the wrong road, he realized it after he saw where the wedding was down below.  He said that’s where his GPS took him.  Excuses, excuses.

We finally arrived, parked and walked across the hay field into this enchanting wooded area with lots of twinkle lights.  They did a good job of decorating.  The pig Alex picked out was still roasting.  Ben made his rounds talking with the various firefighters for a few minutes.  Then it was time to sit down for the ceremony.  The ceremony lasted about 10 minutes with some technical difficulties with the speaker system.  They shrugged it off and continued on.  They kissed each other and we all went into the reception area to eat pig, potato salad, beans, bread, beer and watermelon.  It was the perfect food.  The beer was made by one of Alex’s friends.


We stood in line, got our food and found a place to sit.  We ended up sitting and talking with Megan’s great aunt and uncle from Georgia the entire time.  They were very nice people.  We finished our food and wandered around talking to other firefighters.  We congratulated Alex and Megan before I had to leave around 8.  I told my mom I would be back to the school before 9.  Ben walked me to my car and told me he would see me in a bit.  I wasn’t sure how much longer he would stay.

I got there just before 9 and Ben had texted me a few times saying that he left shortly after I did.  He got bored and wanted to come back as well.  I thought he would stay longer than that.  I changed out of my nice clothes and back into my walking clothes.  Mom and Trish had ordered pizza from Varsity Pizza out in McKenna.  I was still full from our pig dinner.  Ben showed up a few minutes after I did and he also took some time to change his clothes.  I did a bunch more laps with Celeste, Ben and his mom and we helped spread some more of the luminary bags around the track to fill in the gaps before the ceremony at 10:30.

Ben and I went home to put the chickens and ducks away and to grab the fire pit and some wood.  When we got back we unloaded it and set it aside until after the ceremony.

We walked some more laps and then they turned the lights off for the ceremony.  We listened to their speech, a girl sang a song about hope and we walked a lap to honor those who have survived, is currently fighting and ones who lost the battle with cancer behind a bagpipe player.  It was very emotional for some and a memorable moment for others.

We got back to our tent and ate some pizza while we got warm.  The temperature had dropped and the wind was blowing.  I had to put my sweat pants on. 


Then we continued to walk more laps around the track.  Mom told us to light the fire.  We had someone from the leadership team walk over and told us we could not have it where we had it.  We told her that someone told us we could have it here since we could not have it on the lawn.  She told us sorry so we dumped water on it.  Mom came back from the bank and asked around about the fire pit.  We ended up being able to have it on the concrete slab near our tent next to the fence.  It felt nice once we got the fire started again.  Then we had a bunch of kids hang out with us for a while.

I got up again and started walking laps.  I wanted to walk more than I did two years ago…which was 7 miles.  I can totally walk more than that this year.  A few times I went out with Trish, Ben and my mom and we walked a few. 



Then we chilled inside our tent area wrapped up in blankets.  At some point around 3:30-4:00 I got comfortable and closed my eyes.  I was asleep until about 7:30 because it started lightly sprinkling on my face.  Ben and Trish had gotten up earlier and had put some laps behind them.  Ben told me that he got some coffee and wondered if I wanted any hot chocolate or a muffin.  He brought me both.  I walked the rest of my remaining miles with Trish who was after 24.  I just wanted to finish 12 because that was five miles more than I did two years ago. 


At 10:00 was the Seahawk lap.  Ben wore his West Thurston pullover, I wore my 12th man jersey and Trish wrapped herself in a Seahawk blanket.  It was fun.


It was almost time to go and I had no idea where mom was.  They did the closing ceremonies and then we started breaking down our tent area.  About 45 minutes later I found out she was in one of the motor homes with the event leadership counting the money so they could take it to the bank.

I put stuff into the Escape and put the rest of it into mom’s car.  Lastly, we grabbed the ice cream out of the freezer, we decided to sell ice cream but the weather was so poor no one hardly bought any, told Trish thank you for coming and safe travels back home and we headed to mom and dad’s house to drop off the stuff.

Dad was home so he helped me take the fire pit to the back of the house and drop it off along with the firewood we didn’t use, the bucket, the Plinko board and our cardboard cutout of Chewie.  I could tell Ben wanted to go home really bad.  We were tired, sore and my toe was killing me.  I wanted some real food and my bed.  We drove the half hour to home, unloaded our stuff into the house, ate a sandwich, took showers and went to bed for a couple of hours.

I got up around 6ish and started doing laundry and cooking dinner.  We put some of our boxes away from moving and then it was time for actual bed.  I passed out as soon as my head hit the pillow.

Next Adventure:  Wild Waves and Enchanted Village

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